Hey Everyone! Happy Friday!
I’m finally brining this up, yes I’m a stay at home mom. This is a subject that comes up all the time; parties, food shopping, with family, and I can go on. When some hear the phrase ” Stay at Home Mom” they immediately think that the mom does absolutely nothing all day.
Few questions Scott or I get..
How ’bout your wife? Is she back at work yet?”
“So is your wife staying at home permanently?”
“You can be home all day?”
“What do you do with yourself all day “
“Must be nice to have breaks all day long “
It’s true — being a mom isn’t a “job.” A job is something you do for part of the day and then stop doing. You get a paycheck. You have unions, benefits and break rooms. haha mom’s don’t have break rooms, we either need to wait till they are napping or have them in with us in the bathroom. Having a job is necessary for some — it is for me — but I’m truly blessed that I can stay home and watch my son grow, and see all his milestones. Whatever your job is — you are expendable. You are a number. You are a calculation. You can be replaced. A mother can NEVER be replaced. The love & the nurture can and will never be replaced by what a mother and their child have.
Imagine that all the moms out their quit their role as mother, entire lives would be turned upside down; society would suffer greatly. The ripples of that tragedy would be felt for generations. If they all quit their (stay at home mom) who would teach the morals of life, or which roads you should try to lead your child too.
Yes, I’m a mom, and before being a mom I never knew what this love ways. My son has open my eyes so much! I because of him have moved on in my life. I have accomplished so many things in a year that were just sitting in my head and never moving forward with. Yes! I’m learning to be a mom everyday, never do books help out. You learn from your own mistakes, and just get better at them.
Did I ever think I was going to stay home, NO! I never had in my mind that I wold be a stay at home mom. I’m very active person and I like my schedule set for the day. When Scottie was born and whole new world opened up. I loved my job, but what I loved most was my son. Scott and I didn’t want to put him up in daycare so little, and I was truly blessed that Scott and I decided for me to stay home with him. This past year I have seen so much growth, milestones, and love that Scottie has built and shown me. Im so glad I can teach my son how to be a little human , and, as he grows, I will JUST teach him all things, from morals, to manners, to the ABC’s, to hygiene, and to loving one another.
Woman in general, not only moms need to help and support women more. Everyone loves to just talk their mouths out but not help each other out. Being a mom is hard in any way. Either if your working or not working. The job of mom is hard and stressful. Not only do women have to be a mom; they have to be a wife, a cook, a cleaner, and resting arm, a friend, a teacher, and the list can go on.. Ladies we are all the same in so many ways! We are truly superwoman, we can accomplish so much in a day, and nothing stops or gets in our way!
Thank you for all the support! My next blog I will have up will be daily schedule, what I do with my son through out the day… If you have any questions please list them below.